Have you ever felt like you are not moving

forward? Are you keep trying to walk the

“walk”, but something is missing? Do you feel

like something or someone is holding you

back? Oh my Goodness, I remember when I

was there and I was just going in circles and I

just couldn’t get out of this crazy roller coaster.

It made me feel truly miserable!  I couldn’t

explain what was wrong, but I knew

something was not ok. There was something

holding me back and kept me away from

growing in my faith. The root of it all was the

unresolved pain in my heart.

Through our lifetime we all experience hurt,

pain, fear …etc . Question is how can we

overcome these things and begin the process of

healing. The truth is if we give all of these

difficulties to God we will have a 100% success

rate, but on our own we will be miserable. We

won’t be able to grow in our relationship with

Christ. Let me show you a few steps that will

help you overcome any struggles you may have

in your life right now.

1; Examine your life. What could be a reason

you are stuck where you are? Could it be anger

that you are holding against someone that you

had an issue with? Unresolved pain?

The word anger means : ” Anger or wreath is

an intense emotional response. It is an emotion

that involves a strong uncomfortable and

emotional response to a perceived provocation,

hurt or threat . ” – (Wikipedia)

When we feel threatened or manipulated by

others we shot down and try to protect

ourselves. Anger takes over our heart, and

depending on how we react will be the key.

The Bible talks about righteous anger in

Eph 4:26-27

” Be angry, and yet do not sin; Do not let the sun go down on your anger, And do not give the devil an opportunity. ”

Godly anger is an expression of the anger

that is consistent with the character of God,

holy and righteous. Our anger should not be

explosive but slow (Exodus 34:6). Also we

should not be revengeful at this time. Our

heart has to stay in it’s corse with the creator

and focus on the right reaction. We should not

leave unresolved issues, because it will become

infectious and take over our mind.

The mountains of trials that comes our way

will teach us a whole lot about ourselves. As a

mom lot of times I have to catch myself and

think about my actions and ask the question.

“Did this worth to get so mad about?” I’m sure

some of you moms can sympathize!

Stressful situations will oppress into our life,

when we just want to blow up and say hurtful

things to our kids, our spouse, friend or family

members. But how can we show the light if we

do not practice righteous anger. Godly anger is

always under control, rather than anger taking

control over us. It’s important to keep align

with our creator and not let our anger to

turn into bitterness, hatred and revenge.

2; We need to make sure we forgive others

their wrongdoings, because without this we

will be unable to move forward. Bitterness and

hatred tunes out the voice of God. Sin will take

over and we are no longer able to make

rational decisions. Focus on the Father and

don’t let darkness take over your emotions. So

settle your differences and pray for each other.


Eph 4:31-32
31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

James 5:16

16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

Once we go through on the process of forgiving

others, all the weight will be lifted off of our

shoulders. We know we are in the will of God

and our perspective will change forever.

That’s where the healing begins and our soul

and spirit will be tuned to start some awesome

work in the kingdom of God, with a brand new


I pray you can settle your heart and begin to

heal, because I am here to tell you God wants

you to take the next step toward Him.

Don’t waist anymore time, you can do this!

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